The beauty of cruelty – one of Mistress Dark Rose’s favourite writings

Mistress Dark Rose writes from Her private Aspley dungeon……

I came across this writing today from a long time submissive – it resonated well with Me, so I thought I would share……

In my experience, many ProDommes aren’t truly cruel. This is not to say that they aren’t extremely dominant and don’t deliver great sessions. Most do. But I think real cruelty is relatively rare. I love experiencing it, the sense I feel that the Domme not only enjoys hurting and humiliating me, but that she craves doing so, that cruelty is at the core of her being just as submission is at the core of mine. And though she may be cruel, she is in control, respecting limits and never inflicting serious injury.

It’s hard to define what constitutes cruelty. It’s not the fake mocking laughter you often hear in session by which the Domme tries to convince you she is amused by your reactions to pain. It’s not her unconvincing claims that raising welts on your skin is making her hot. The cruel Domme doesn’t do any of that. I think it’s just something you feel, a special vibe. It manifests itself in attitude, the way she wields her whip and cane, her facial expression, a certain twist of the mouth and gleam in the eye. I find it beautiful.  gregor

Here’s the link – http://www.maxfisch.com/thehang/ubbthreads.php/topics/1652962/The_beauty_of_cruelty